How to choose your spouse, according to the real experts
Karl Pillemer asked 700 Americans in very long marriages to share their secrets

In the olden days, moms used to clip articles from newspapers for their kids if they thought it was something they needed to know. I’m keeping an eye out for things that you might have missed that may be helpful to you.
This week’s clips:
What’s wrong with ChatGPT glow-ups? Nicole James examines what we lose when we outsource our self-construction to somebody else.
Do the hacks for erasing student loan debt in those TikTok videos actually work? Experts warn that using one can inflict long-term financial damage.
What type of marriage is most likely to be successful? Therapist Dr. Kelly Flanagan explains why it’s one in which “losing” becomes a way of life.